While there’s no specific “right” age, preparing early is a good decision. Virginia law allows any adult (18 or older) to create an advance directive. There’s no maximum age limit, either. But whether you’re a college student, a new parent, or approaching retirement, an advance directive can empower you to maintain control over your medical care and spare your loved ones from guessing about your health care preferences during difficult times, easing their emotional burden.
When should you start thinking about creating an advance directive? Many say it should be before you need one. However, certain life events can serve as a reminder.
When you get married or enter a long-term partnership
Marriage or a committed partnership involves making important life decisions together. Creating an advance directive lets you and your partner discuss your health care wishes openly. Part of the process involves choosing someone to make decisions for you, and your spouse or partner is often a natural choice for this role. You ensure your new spouse or partner understands and can advocate for your preferences if needed.
When you become a parent
Parenthood naturally turns your thoughts to the future and your family’s well-being. By creating an advance directive now, you make your health care choices and wishes known, especially on aspects like:
- Life support if recovery is unlikely
- Pain management and comfort care
- Organ donation
- Where and how you would prefer to spend your final days
These clear instructions can guide your family during challenging times and set an example of responsible planning for your children.
When you reach a milestone birthday
When one reaches milestone birthdays, such as 40th, 50th and 60th, it’s hard not to reflect on life and the future. In Virginia, advance directives are legally binding, and health care providers must either follow your decisions or transfer your care to a provider who will. This can help give you peace of mind, knowing that you have ensured that others will respect your choices.
There’s no better time than now
Life is unpredictable, but your health care choices don’t have to be. An attorney can help you create an advance directive that speaks for you when you can’t speak for yourself.
